I enjoy having orgasms. I can't remember having an orgasm that I didn't enjoy (enormously).
I understand some guys have a problem with "premature ejaculation." I've never experienced one of those, butt doesn't it still feel good to cum? I can see why it could be embarrassing butt it must feel good to ejaculate anyway (you can aways change your underwear).
I was very fortunate. I was a jock and I partied my ass off in college. I majored in nursing students and I lived off campus. I had a bar in my living room and lots of weed. So I also had the opportunity to sleep with lots of women. Some of women were not great in bed. Butt every orgasm was great.
This article only presents the male perspective. And these are just my personal views. Other guys may totally disagree with me. And to those poor bastards, I say: I'm really sorry you experience bad orgasms. Maybe you should seek professional help - visit a prostitute.
I hope women can give us their perspective on orgasms. Tell us about those "fake" orgasms too.